7 Ingredients for a Great Hookup

A good hookup is like a cake; there's some ingredients that need to be present, otherwise I'll pass, thank you. We've all had good hookups and bad hookups, but what are the common denominators that distinguish them? Here are seven essentials qualities to any hookup worth its cum!

1. Consent

First and foremost, make sure it's totally clear what's going on. You can subtle and cute about it, but make sure there's no confusion about why you're taking your pants off.

2. Communication

Throughout the entire hookup timeline, you need to be very communicative with him. Tell him exactly what you want and how you want it and encourage him to do the same. Everyone will leave happier if you're upfront with each other.

3. Foreplay

Unless you're raging with passion, it's generally uncouth to just burst through your apartment door and immediately start sucking his dick. Take the time to warm everything up. Go slow and enjoy the little things along the way... before they become massive things...

4. Have a date before!

Even if the man you're hooking up with is just a one-night-stand, you can still have an enjoyable date beforehand to get know each other a bit before sucking and fucking. Having a drink at a nice bar or a small meal makes everything feel a bit more romantic.

5. A glass of wine

It's always good to have a little libation on hand in case you or your guest would like to grease the wheels a bit. Depending on your pleasure, a variety of aphrodisiacs may be advisable.

6. Satisfy both of your needs

Most likely, you both have your preferred way to orgasm. Talk about it, and make it happen! If they're incompatible, go twice and take turns!

7. Treat him like a human after

Finally, once all is said and done, don't be afraid to look him in the eye. Hell, stay and cuddle for a bit. Order a pizza. Enjoy your refractory period together until it's time to hookup again!