Ask Agatha: Friend With Benefits Wants to Pay Me For Head?
I've always known that I have above-average blowjob skills. Not to brag or anything, but I've got grade-A dick sucking lips, a cute face, a submissive personality, etc. Anyway, I've been hooking up with this new guy I met, and he's great! I feel like we're totally compatible and I find him to be quite interesting and sophisticated. But the other night after I finished sucking him off, he asked me a very strange question. It was something to the effect of, could I blow him on an even more regular basis in exchange for money... ? I won't say exactly how much he offered because honestly I don't think it's relevant. I guess it's a compliment to propose this, but I also feel strangely offended. Should I take him up on his offer?
Run away and don't look back. If there was a mutual connection between you two as you seem to think, then there would be no reason for him to offer money. It seems quite plain to see that he is only using you for your mouth. If you want to become a sex worker, then do it. But this man is making clear what he thinks of you. You are a dopamine transaction to him, not a lover. You deserve better, and your heavenly blowjobs would be better used on someone who actually cares about you as a person.