Dear Agatha,
I seem to be butting heads with my significant other, or rather... not butting heads enough. He is, let's say, a traditionalist when it comes to sex. To him, every sexual encounter is predicated the essential act of a penis penetrating an asshole. I tend to view the world quiet differently. Penis-in-hole sex is fun, but also I believe it to be a vestige of heteronormativity! Frottage, on the other hand, is arguably the gayest sex act available! Only lovers with multiple dicks--in total--can perform frottage, and I for one find it even more totally euphoric than anal! Whenever we do frot, he tends to quickly move on to another sex act. But there's nothing quite like two cocks rubbing together and ejaculating all over each other! How can I get my lover to understand that frottage isn't just foreplay?
Sincerely,
Frank
Dear Frank,
We all have our own kinks and preferred methods of getting our rocks off. There is absolutely nothing wrong with frottage being your favorite way to cum. But you must understand that sex and relationships are compromises. If your lover is good, then you should never feel devoid of the frottage you need. Simultaneously, if his heart is set on anal, you must be learn to reciprocate from time to time. Frot on, brother.
XOXO,
Agatha
