I think we can all agree that one of the best parts about having sex is that you get to have an orgasm. Orgasms, from an evolutionary standpoint, are designed to be very pleasurable experiences. But what if I told you that some guys, preferred to have their orgasms ruined?

So what is a ruined orgasm? Technically speaking, a ruined orgasm is when a guy brings you right to edge of cumming, whether it be via handjob, blowjob, or penetration, but then right when the first drop of sperm comes shooting out, he immediately removes all stimulation from your cock, which of course leaves you writhing in sweet, sweet agony as your confused cock continues to begrudgingly cum. A ruining of an orgasm can either be complete or partial. In other words, he can just get up and leave the room right as you cum (100% ruined) or revert to slow teasing licks as you cum (50% ruined). How ruined of an orgasm you get is up for you to decide (or for your dom to allow).

Why exactly men find this pleasurable is somewhat difficult to pin down. There is some overlap in this practice with BDSM and chastity. The idea is usually something like, in depriving you of the greatest sexual pleasure attainable, you’ll only want it more, and your horniness gets elevated. Additionally, if you begin a sexual session knowing that your orgasm is ultimately going to be ruined, it forces you to look for greater satisfaction in the foreplay. When the game is no longer just rush to the climax, you can find much more joy in the little things of sex. ;)

So what do you think? Do you like ruined orgasms, or do you prefer to the real McCoy? Sometime it’s best to include a healthy mix of the two in your sex life. Cumming is always more exciting when you’re not 100% sure that it’s really going to happen. ;)