Porn Star Tea: Cole Connor, Award-Winning Power Verse
Article written by Alexander Rodriguez, host of On the Rocks with Alexander
Adult film star Cole Connor hasn’t even been on the adult film scene for more than a hot minute and already he’s become a Falcon/NakedSword Exclusive, a GayVN winner for Best Actor, and a Grabby Award winner for Best Newcomer. Most recently, he earned a whopping 7 nominations for this year’s upcoming Grabby Awards. (Not the first 7 seven he’s taken.) This salt-and-pepper-haired hottie fulfills all of our power verse fantasies as he is equally adept on top or bottom (or everything in between).
He has a heart of gold and always has a moment to chat with a fan. He is a super sweetheart, a blatant flirt, and can drink you under the table at any given happy hour. Not just a pretty face, he is a successful podcaster enjoying season 2 of his popular show, Sorry For Asking, with his co-host and fellow adult film star, Adam Ramzi. We got to catch up with this superstar over drinks in Palm Springs, after a day of filming.
You are a big award winner! What does it mean the most to be winning awards for your work?
I’m very fortunate to get attention from the industry as well as the fans for my work. It’s a good feeling to be noticed and I am honored to be included with the best of the business!
What got you into the biz?
I’ve always been a big porn fan. To get to do it on this level is very exciting but I think what got me into it was just wanting to do something fun and different for myself after coaching/personal training and taking care of other people for years. I wanted to do something for myself that I would enjoy.
What would you have liked to have known before you got into porn?
I was pretty well prepared, I think. I knew what shoots would be like and I knew how to perform already. There are things I’ve gotten better at, for sure. The process of learning and the challenges to get better at some things have been fun for me along the way.
Have you always been an exhibitionist?
Only in a controlled setting where I know exactly who can see me and there is no possibility of getting in trouble. If I’m nervous, I’m not having fun.
What was filming your first scene like?
My first scene was for Raging Stallion with Killian Knox and Chad Lucas. The 3 of us had amazing chemistry and we were all so excited to be there and show (director) Tony Dimarco and the rest of the crew what we could do. We were flipping each other over and getting into all kinds of positions. The time really flew by and before we knew it, it was over. Everyone was really happy with the result!
What sets you apart from other male performers in the industry?
I guess I came into this industry knowing myself a bit better than a lot of guys who start when they are really young. I know I’m smart, and I have a sense of self-worth beyond what opinions people might have of me from time to time. I don’t need to be everyone’s favorite. I just have to like myself.
What kind of porn are you watching on your time off?
I talk about this a lot on my Sorry For Asking podcast. I usually watch straight porn with multiple guys in the scenes. Double penetrations really hit differently for me visually, you could say! And there are some guys in straight porn I think are so hot!
What made you decide to get into podcasting?
(Co-host) Adam Ramzi and I were talking about it one night and we both had been thinking about doing it but didn’t really know where to start. I wanted to do a show where I could share my experiences as a newcomer, and I thought it would be an interesting contrast to do it with a performer who had been in the industry long enough to talk about when the landscape was quite a bit different than it is now.
What is your favorite topic from the podcast that is your favorite?
Oh, man….Lately, douching has come up quite often, lol. But seriously, I love talking about when people have had moments of change or growth from their experiences in the industry.
What do you love most about working with Adam?
Adam is just a really good person. He always tries to do the right thing and he has way more patience and kindness than I exhibit usually. He brings depth and nuance to the podcast that I definitely could not bring to it myself.
Would you ever hook up with a fan?
I’m sure that I have. Flattery will get you EVERYWHERE! I love the feeling of making someone’s day sexually.
What is dating/romantic life like now that you are a porn star, has it changed?
I don’t know if I would call myself a porn star. I was never much of a dater before, and porn definitely did not make me one. It is not easy for me. I need a lot of alone time and I have often been accused of being neglectful in my romantic relationships. It’s just not what I’m looking for right now.
What kind of scene do you want to film, but haven’t yet?
I just want to enjoy myself filming whatever I do. Sometimes we have to perform like we are having a great time. I would love to actually be having a great time when I look like I am.
Who is your celebrity crush?
Henry Cavill
What do you want your fans to know most about you?
People can think whatever they want about me. It doesn’t make it true. I’ve seen some things said about me (and other performers) that are just extremely wrong, unfair, and hurtful. I see hateful comments like that on Twitter as something you can’t engage with. They don’t want to have a conversation. They have already decided that you are a horrible person, so why would you engage with that and try to defend yourself?
What kind of underwear are you wearing around the house on a day off?
Obviously, Andrew Christian briefs or boxer briefs!
What kind of underwear do you find hottest on a guy?
I love tighty whities!
If you were to design a pair of Andrew Christians, what would they look like?
They would be classic, comfortable, and clean. Probably briefs, but accentuating a bulge in the front.
You can follow Cole on his NSFW Twitter!
And check out his podcast Sorry For Asking!