Article by Ben Haynes

There's something incredibly sexy about a man who dedicates time to reading. Daily reading links with higher levels of intelligence and an overall more heightened sense of happiness. Who doesn't love a bright, happy guy? As the world continues to evolve, titles focusing on the LBGTQI+ community rapidly emerge. Stories of our experiences, traumas, or hilarious things that happen can help make the tough times easier to manage. If you're looking for some gay-friendly titles to add to your library, here are some we think you should start with!

The Velvet Rage, by Alan Downs, PhD

Initially published in 2005, then completely revised and updated in 2012, this book could efficiently serve as the gay man's Bible. The author, Alan Downs, explores the intensely emotional and traumatizing experience most gay men endured as children growing up in a straight man's world. Downs explains that all gay men go through three distinct stages in life on the road to living authentically without being overcome by shame.

Gay Bar: Why We Went Out, by Jeremy Atherton Lin

Upon first glance at this fantastic read, you might think it simply tells the history of gay bars. You'd be correct, but the book goes so much deeper than that. Jeremy Atherton Lin explores what it means to be queer and why gay bars have historically been places of love and healing for many in the community. The book touches on the decline in gay spaces over the years and what this might mean for the community as we move forward.

All Boys Aren’t Blue: A Memoir-Manifesto, by George M. Johnson

This beautifully written memoir offers readers a masterclass in what it's like growing up as a queer Black kid in rural America. George M. Johnson shares their heart-wrenching experiences of getting bullied as a child and the pivotal moments of sharing their authentic self with family and friends. Empowering and emotional, this book is an experience nobody should miss.

Ander & Santi Were Here, by Jonny Garza Villa

Who doesn't love a good young adult romance novel that will tear your heart to shreds? This love story between a Mexican-American teen and an undocumented Mexican boy has proven to win readers over with the flawless story-telling tactics of author Jonny Garza Villa. But beware: tissues will be necessary for this title. The story effortlessly reminds you of your first deep, true love and the lengths you went to keep it alive and burning.

Pageboy: A Memoir, by Elliot Page

Elliot Page makes his debut as an author in this riveting and captivating memoir. Page recounts many traumatic experiences from his life in the highly anticipated book. Sexual assaults, threats, homophobia, being groomed to fit into a gender-specific mold, and many more harrowing experiences are detailed here. Whether you're a fan of Page's work or have never experienced their stories, this book will surely be worth your time.

You’re That Bitch: & Other Cute Lessons About Being Unapologetically Yourself, by Bretman Rock

Social media influencer and beauty expert Bretman Rock jumps into the world of writing with his instant smash hit, You're That Bitch. Rock effortlessly integrates humor, wit, and charm into his experiences of growing up in the Philippines, dealing with heartbreak, juggling political climates, love interests, and his social media presence- all before he was of legal adult age. This book is a fun read for everyone, regardless of your knowledge of Rock's online presence.

Boys Come First, by Aaron Foley

This fictional account of three gay men who balance life, work, love, and sex in modern-day Detroit is a relatable and honest look into gay life in America. Aaron Foley effortlessly connects to his readers by showing them that their experiences with awkward Grindr hookups, strained relationships with family members, and pitfalls in friendships aren't all that uncommon.

My Government Means to Kill Me, by Rasheed Newson

Our final entry takes us back to New York City in the 1980s. Our main character has run away from his family to seek shelter and sanctuary in the gay-friendly streets of New York City. Amidst the growing HIV/AIDS crisis, he finds anything but peace. Author Rasheed Newson, known for writing and producing the hit show "Bel-Air," offers readers a realistic and honest look into what Black men faced amid the worst crisis to hit the LGBTQI+ community in history.
July 05, 2023 — Andrew Christian
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