It’s the most colorful time of the year. Pride Month is here, and whether you’ve got a packed calendar or you’re just showing up for the vibes (and the shirtless crowd), it’s time to get loud, get bold, and get ready for the gays to absolutely give.

But navigating Pride season takes planning. You need the right look, the right places to be, and the right energy to kiss with confidence. So we put together your ultimate guide to doing Pride right.

1. What to Wear: Make Them Stare

Let’s get one thing straight (just kidding, obviously not)—Pride is not the time for subtlety. It’s your chance to be the main character, the backup dancer, and the surprise guest star all at once.

• Tiny swimwear: For pool parties, beach days, or just vibing shirtless in a rainbow floatie. Think bright colors, bold cuts, and bulge-forward design. Show it off.

• Crop tops and mesh tanks: These say, “I’m here to dance, sweat, and possibly make out behind the port-a-potty.” We support it.

• Jockstraps under everything: Because you never know when the afterparty becomes a real party.

• Accessories: Bandanas, harnesses, glitter, and anything that jingles, bounces, or glows in blacklight. Go maximalist.

Pro tip: If someone yells “Slay!” when they see you, you nailed it.

2. Where to Go: Be Where the Boys Are

Every city has its own Pride flavor. Some are sweaty and wild, others are political and powerful. Most are a little bit of both. Here’s where to make your grand entrances:

• The Parade: A classic for a reason. Perfect for dancing in the street, reuniting with old flings, and watching twinks in body glitter lose their minds when a drag queen makes eye contact.

• Pool parties and day raves: This is where the fashion hits harder and the flirting gets wetter. Sunscreen up, legs out.

• After-dark rooftop parties: Wear something sheer and be prepared to shout over house remixes until 2 a.m. This is where the hookups happen.

• Community events: Drag brunches, queer art shows, trans-led panels—remember, Pride is about showing up for all parts of the community. Your support looks good on you.

3. Who to Kiss: Follow the Vibe

Let’s be clear—no one owes anyone a kiss. But if you feel the spark, the eye contact lingers, and the playlist hits just right, go ahead and lean in.

• Kiss the boy who complimented your outfit.

• Kiss your best friend just for the hell of it.

• Kiss the guy you’ve had a crush on since last summer.

• Kiss someone mid-dance break and blame the confetti.

• Kiss yourself in the mirror before you head out—you look incredible.

Pride is about connection. With your community, with your body, with your joy. So share it. Loudly. With tongue, if applicable.

Pride isn’t just a month. It’s a mindset. It’s about showing up fully, loudly, and beautifully in your own skin—and letting others do the same. So put on the shorts. Say yes to the invite. Make eye contact with the cute guy across the street. This is your season. Own it.

And whatever you do, don’t forget to hydrate.