Six Ways to Last Longer When You’re Balls Deep
By Eris Chase
We’ve all been there—hot, sweaty, heavy, halfway through a marathon session when suddenly your lower back tightens, you feel it deep in your core. You’re about to throw your ropes and it hasn’t been near long enough for your partner to have gotten anything out of it… Don’t worry, baby. You’re not alone. Whether it’s the heat of the moment or just a body that’s wound a little too tight, there’s no shame in needing a few tricks to keep the game going longer and keep that cum tucked away in your precious jewels.
So, if you want to be a marathoner instead of a sprinter, here are six ways to keep things going when you’re balls deep and not ready to wipe off with a towel just yet:
1. Cut Off The Flow
A cock ring is basically your BFF in the bedroom. It keeps blood where you want it (hello, hardness our old friend) while slowing down that rush to climax. Plus, it looks hot AF when it’s snug around your throbbing cock, giving you that thick, veiny porn star vibe. Hott tip: Go for a silicone one if you’re new, and don’t forget, safety is your other BFF. You want it sexy tight, not tourniquet level tight.
2. Pre-Game Bate Session
Think of this like drinking a shot of pre workout. If you know you’re going to take things to the mat, get one out earlier in the day. It takes the edge off and ups your stamina when the passions start flowing. Don’t wear yourself out to much though, one and done is all you should need to make a lasting impression on your sweetheart bottom. They cleaned out for you, you best be more than a two strokes Johnny for them.
3. Think Unsexy Thoughts. Think Unsexy Thoughts. Think Unsexy Thoughts.
But, you know, not too unsexy. You don’t want your dick to retreat and shrivel to a nub. The idea here is to mentally shift yourself from the brink. When things get too hot, let your mind wander a bit. Think about something innocuous, like what you’re having for dinner or what dry cleaning needs to go out Just don’t drift too far into the weeds. You’re still literally inside someone after all.
4. Slick That Tunnel Like A Slip-N-Slide
You want to really last longer, and keep things ultra smooth and pleasurable for you both? Proper lubrication (which should be required by law!!) reduces sensitivity just enough to help you stay harder longer without risking that quick pop-off. Plus, who doesn’t love a slick, sexy glide with those oh so porny squelching sounds?
5. Slow It Down By Shifting Around
Setting a brutal and punishing pace feels ah-may-zing, but it’s also your quickest way to end things waaaay too soon. Slow it down by switching to positions where you have more control. A little spooning, maybe? Or, the underrated missionary position? How about a little slow and seductive hip roll to a filthy grind instead of a ground and pound, yes. It’s about playing the long game, babes. Oh, and that grinding friction? Paradise for all present.
6. Train Harder Than Leg Day
Edging is akin to the tantric art of self control. Bring yourself to the brink, then back off before going over the edge. Now, wash, rinse, repeat until you’re a fucking machine. Whether you practice solo or with a partner, it builds up your tolerance and makes the eventual release even more mind bending. Trust, nothing screams Alpha Top like knowing you can hold back and still finish like Asmodeus.
There you go you stunning humans; six ways to stretch that pleasure session deep into extra time. A blend of the mind, the body, some training and maybe a ring around your most sacred of spaces, you’ll keep your partner begging for
more, More, MORE. After all, is there anything hotter than knowing you can give them exactly what they want, and make them shake with need for another round?