By Eris Chase

Here’s the story… you’ve just wrecked each other. The bottom is a sticky mess laying in a shockingly deep pool of their own cum. They aren’t even close to coming down from a post-O high. Arms shaking, knees long ago given out. You get the jam.. yes? The top just filled the bottom to bursting and when his last grunt of intense pleasure is barely breathed out, he is pulling out none too delicately and heading to the shower with nary a backward glance or a courtesy slap on the ass.

Baby… where you going???

STAY IN! It’s high-key sexy AF to feel the full weight of your partner collapse on top of you and soften ever so slowly. That smooth slide out…. sigh pure magic. Stop the rip and dip, settle in and savor the post-eruption come down.

So what else is there that maybe you didn’t know someone would be wild for? Well, follow along and we’ll share a few more things we never say out loud but secretly adore or desire.

1. That Fucked Out Groan You Make When You Collapse On Top of Us

If the collapse is pure magic, then that deep, exhausted sigh when you roll over but still have just enough energy to pull us into your chest is the pure primal best. Beyond sexy. It makes us feel like we did a job well done. And honestly? It’s giving us room to flex, like, yeah, we just did that to him. insert nail painting emoji

2. When You Grab At Us Mid Kiss As Though You Can’t Consume Enough of Us

It’s not a kiss, it’s a claiming. That firm hand on our jaw? The thumb stroking our cheek while you tilt our head back. Fingers digging into our hips as our body is crushed to yours in a mind-boggling frenzy of biting kisses…. That is the stuff fantasy is made of. It makes us feel wanted, like you physically can’t help yourself. That’s the exact energy we need and want.

3. When You Whisper Filthy Thoughts Into Our Skin

You know when we’re just lying there, blissed out, wrapped around each other, maybe half dropped out of reality? That’s the perfect time to murmur something absolutely sinful into our neck while you lick and suck your way across our collarbone. A casual “Can you still feel me inside you?” or “I’m not done with you yet” or even better, “You are mine. Mine to taste. Mine to fuck. Mine alone.” I mean, it’s a shiver up our spine to a total brain melt.

4. When You Don’t Just Bump, You Grind

We love a good pounding as much as the next guy, to give or receive. But when you mix in those slow, deep, rolling movements that press every part of you against every part of them? That’s the sheet gripping, bottom lip biting, head thrown back in ecstasy vibe we crave. It’s a rhythm that says you’re not just trying to get off, you’re trying to make us feel you through to our soul. And we love that for you and for us!

5. When You’re Just A Little Bit Possessive

No, we are not saying we need you to pull the claws out and growl like a feral cat at every guy who so much as looks in our direction. But when you tug us closer in a crowd, shoot a glare at someone checking us out, or utter something like “Don’t forget who you belong to.” while pulling us into a kiss? Yeah. We know. Low-key unhealthy, but, what can we say? That does do it for us.

6. When You Stay In After You Cum

To get back to the OG point at hand, we love staying connected after climax. It’s not just the physical sensation (which, as we covered, feels really seriously good). It’s the unspoken intimacy, the feeling of warmth, of belonging. It’s letting the moment linger instead of rushing to clean up or roll away. It says, I want to stay close to you just a little longer. And that? That’s oh so everything.

So, there ya go. Those little unspoken details that take sex from good to absolutely mind-melting. Now that you know, don’t just go through the standard deck of motions. Stay in, whisper something filthy, grab like you can’t get enough, and bring the grind game, babes. Trust, it’s the difference between just getting off and leaving us wrecked, ruined, and pleading for more.