What Your Sexual Fantasy Says About You

Article written by Kendra Beltran

Every little aspect about you tells a story. From what you like to eat to what you wear to who you fuck, but today we’re going to break down those sexual fantasies you have swirling around in your head. You’ve been daydreaming around the clock about a cock that is not your man’s? Oo, let’s break that one down. Do you want to add a third person into the mix? Well, well, well...we have almost a dozen to talk about so let’s get to it!

Authority Figure Role Play

There are a myriad of roles one can take on when stepping into this fantasy, one of the most common in the porn realm that has inspired many couples around the world is boss/employee. Oh, to wildly shove everything off a desk and fuck someone’s brains out on top - YAS. While many of us have dreamt about this scenario or others like it, what the hell does it mean? Well, if you’re fantasizing about being the dominating role, then you could be lacking that in your actual life. Whether that’s at work, in your relationship, or just life in general - you’re yearning for some legit control of something, so taking that dominating role gives you that. On the flip side, those who dream about playing the other role in this game tend to have too much control in their lives - which can be stressful as fuck. So often their fantasies revolve around not having to be the one in charge. If this is you, you may want to take a break from whatever is stressing you out!

Fantasy Realm

When it comes to roleplaying during sex, not all of it centers around the whole dom/sub roles. Sometimes you just want to make believe you’re on a business trip and met a new guy at the bar. Simple, right? Well, so much when you dive into why you want to take on another’s identity during sex. Could you be feeling as if the real world is too much to handle at the moment?

Threesome

When it comes to thinking nonstop about a threesome, that doesn’t mean you’re necessarily bored AF with your partner. If you were, you wouldn’t include them in your fantasies at all, right? Wanting another person in the act could mean your partner isn’t doing enough so you want to see if another person could do what they’re not. If you’re actually not in a relationship and daydreaming about a threesome, that just means you’re the type of person who doesn’t like to settle for the norm, you like to chew off way more than suggested.

Infidelity

So while a threesome doesn’t always mean you’re ready to jump ship from your relationship, thinking about fucking someone else entirely does. So if you’re continuously fantasizing about someone that ain’t with you - it’s time to sit your partner down and have a talk.

Watching Your Partner with Another

Wanting the most for your partner, including having them be sexually satisfied by another, is far from a bad thing. It means you’re the type of person who always puts others before yourself. This could also be a hint that you need to put yourself first every once in a while because you matter just as much!

Sex with a Stranger

There is something hot as hell about hooking up with someone when you know nothing more than their name. What’s it mean though? It could be that you’re not one for getting serious, or it could translate into you being so bored with your life, you’re seeking some sort of adventure that feels more thrilling than anything else.