4 Tips for the Perfect Handjob

Article by Ben Haynes

We all love sex. We love talking about sex, thinking about sex, having sex…any way you name it, we love it! Though we can all polish ourselves off with our own hands, sometimes getting a hand (literally) from another guy is one of the greatest feelings. Here, we explore some general tips for the perfect handjob.

1. Use the Right Lube

If you intend to keep your hands on your man's dick for longer than just a few moments, you should probably have some good lube nearby to keep things enjoyable for everyone. Water-based or silicone-based lube are typical go-to choices for most men. They're readily available anywhere you shop and can last a while. This means you can edge your man until you're both ready for the big moment. Spit can also be a great choice, but learn what feels best for him rather than what's easiest for you.

2. It’s Not Just Up and Down!

When you jerk off, do you go up and down for ten minutes and never change your motions? Hopefully, the answer is no! And if so, why would you treat your man differently? Add little twisting motions here and there, play with the head, and use just a few fingers at times to stroke. Whatever you can think of to spice it up, go for it! Keep him guessing what your next move might be until the end.

3. Use BOTH Hands

You know those guys who only ever do upper body at the gym, and their legs look puny and sad? Don't do that to your arms! We don't talk much about giving a handjob; it's an exhausting workout! Please don't leave it all to one hand! Switch hands from time to time, and be sure to sometimes put both hands to work simultaneously! Occasionally, using two hands together will drive your man wild and leave him begging for more.

4. Don’t Forget About His Balls!

Though we could talk about dick all day, we'd be remiss if we ignored its counterparts to the south. Though the balls are incredibly sensitive and must be treated with the utmost care, that gives all the more reason to never neglect them! A handful (see what we did there?) of guys LOVE having their balls played with. In fact, for many, without proper stimulation of the balls, a handjob (or any sexual encounter) is just so-so. Some men depend on the sensations from their balls to be able to cum. Whatever the case, don't leave them hanging there! Give the balls some love and remind your man that you mean business when you put your hands on him.