Article by Brittany Hancock

Tired of the same old, same old? Then maybe it's time to get in touch with your inner freak. There are numerous ways you can spice up sex. It all begins with an open mind. Stepping out of your comfort zone can be a revelation for those who are otherwise conservative. So, give some of these ideas a try. If you find you’re not interested, you can always stop.

Spanking One erotic way to spice things up is by giving or receiving a spanking. While this experience may initially sound painful, you will soon find there is far more pleasure. The key is to make sure you know what you’re doing. Beginners would be wise to try the more vanilla side of spanking; which involves subtle and teasing spanks. The receiver should be wearing clothing but try to avoid wearing any underwear-- unless its AC ;) From here begin slow spanks, then ease off. Continue these motions until you create a rhythm while focusing on the plumper parts of their cheeks. If you find this kinky fetish is right for you, you can continue on to more vigorous spanks that leave your buttocks a bright red. Dominate and Submissive Domination is an empowering experience that really lets you display your confidence. On the other hand, being a submissive lets you relieve yourself of decision making and let go of your pride. Both can be extremely hot based upon your perspective. The key to successfully building upon this type of relationship is trust. The dominator must understand the boundaries of the submissive and the submissive must be willing to give that level of trust. For this reason, not only is this a hot way to release your inner kink, but it’s a good way to build trust within a relationship. It’s a good idea to discuss these limitations before you begin any play and even smarter to designate a safe word. This type of sex can get pretty intense. Some good tips for a beginning dominator are hair pulling, humiliation, and even whips. Of course, it’s really up to you on what you would like to demand of your submissive. Sex Toys If you’re looking to stay to the softer side of kink, sex toys are a good option. There are numerous items available on the market to enhance your pleasure. Cock rings are useful tools for keeping you hard longer and thereby prolonging your orgasm. Anal plugs are helpful for opening up your hole for a better pounding. Double-sided dildos are fun for those looking for something different. Handcuffs and gags can be used to tease your partner. There’s truly an endless selection that you can choose from for your pleasure. Using Feet One way to change things up and get a little kinky is by using those body parts you don’t normally incorporate into your sex time. The next time you’re at the dinner table, try giving your partner a footjob. This an exciting way to get him off in public without the rest of the world knowing. It’s discrete but still sexy. It also takes some skill. You’ll want to be gentle with your partner’s member as you don’t want to accidentally kick him. This would quickly make the situation go from a turn on to a world of pain. Use your toes to scale the outer lengths of his penis. Tease him until he pulls his entire shaft out for you to stroke. Then continue until he busts beneath the tablecloth. Food Play Food can make things interesting in the bedroom as well. Whip cream is a classic for bringing into the bedroom. The plastic nozzle is perfect for guiding streaks of cream along your lover’s thighs, abdomen, chest, and neck. Start with his lips and kiss him passionately. Place the sweet substance individually on the other parts then lick them off; one by one. Finally, you can place the cream on his cock, then suck it off until there’s nothing left. Alternatively, you can use chocolate and other sweet syrups in replacement of the whipped cream. Things are guaranteed to get sticky. Threesome Bringing another person into your sex time is another way to explore your kink. If you’re both trusting of each other and willing to invite someone else to share in your sexual desires than you should consider a threesome. This pleasurable experience will leave you both busy and fulfilled. There will be more than enough body parts to keep your hands and mouth working. There will also be a plethora of pleasure swirling around as you and your two partners explore each other. If you’re feeling even more adventurous, you can try more than just one person.
December 13, 2018 — Andrew Christian
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