7 Tips Before Attending Your First Orgy

Article by Brittany Hancock

Attending your first orgy can be an exciting experience that you won’t soon forget. If this is your first time going to a sex party, you are likely boggled with a number of questions. Fear not. We have some tips and suggestions to help ease your nerves before the big night.

Don’t Bring a Guest

If you are one of the fortunate few to be invited to an orgy, don’t take this for granted. While you may be excited to include another lover into this sexual fantasy it would not be wise. Bringing an unexpected guest is considered rude and could likely lead to your dismal. If you really want to bring someone, ask the host beforehand. Going over these plans before the party is more likely to gain your friend access.

Be Safe

An exciting sex party will likely involve drinking, wild party goers, and an all-around crazy time. Despite this, you should still be wary of your safety. Don’t wander anywhere alone where you may be met with unwanted circumstances. It’s best to stay where the participants are indulging in group fun. It’s also important to remember to bring protection as to avoid any unwanted party favors. Though you’re wanting to have a good time, you don’t want to leave yourself vulnerable.

Understand the Unspoken Rules

Generally, an orgy will be an anonymous affair. You never know who you will see at a sex party, maybe even a few people you know. Not everyone is looking to have their business thrown out and about during these occasions, however. For this reason, you should understand that another person’s identity is to be kept secret. So, even if you know them, don’t announce their name. It’s likely you will even be advised to use a mask or some form of face covering to conceal your own identity. This may even make you feel more comfortable should you meet someone you know. After all, you don’t know what type of wild antics the night could have in store.

Have a Good Time

While there are precautions to be considered before attending your first orgy, the most pivotal aspect is to have fun. When you go into the party expect to be met with a good time. There’s a sea of pleasure waiting to be dived into and you shouldn’t hold back from this experience. After all, not everyone gets to enjoy this type of evening. So, remember to savor it. Let yourself be consumed by every moment and store it away into your memory bank. Let every touch and sensual sensation invade your senses until you are completely lost in this pleasurable moment.

Keep an Open Mind

If you’re attending a sex party, there’s a good chance you are open-minded. However, you may be met with some situations you couldn’t conjure up in your wildest dreams. Don’t be afraid. New forms of sex play may arise and you shouldn’t let your fears hold you back from entering into these new territories. An open mind will often lead an individual into finding out more about themselves. Whether this be sexually or personally. An open mind will help you grow, so don’t shun away new ideas right off the bat. Give it a try. If you’re not comfortable you can always opt out, but at least give it a try.

Respect Your Fellow Guests

R-E-S-P-E-C-T. Respect is a crucial part of attending a sex party. We all have boundaries. If a guest informs you they are not comfortable with your interests or that they don’t want to engage with you, don’t push the issue. Let it go. An individual’s boundaries are often made before ever entering through the doors and are set for their own personal reasons. If you try to push past them, you are being blatantly disrespectful. Don’t be that jerk. Just let it go. After all, a sex party is filled with individuals who are looking for a good time and you’ll likely meet someone within the same mindset.

Explore Your Options

Your first orgy! How exciting! It’s likely you’ll want to dive right into the first group you come upon engaging in these wild sexual activities. Stop. Breathe. There’s a lot to explore at a sex party. Before you jump into things, try looking around a bit. See what kind of options are available to you. Find that particular group that is doing just what you imagined yourself doing during your first party. There could be all males, all females, or a mix of genders. Some participants may be using toys while others prefer to use only their bodies. The options are really limitless, and you don’t want to find out later that you missed out on what you truly wanted. So, wander around. Visit each room and decide whether your expectations will be met.