Article written by Rahmel Reid

When the term is validated via “urban dictionary” — then to hell with anyone else’s take, or opinions on it (and you). “Cumdump” can take on many meanings, but at its core, being a cumdump means you have an insatiable appetite for having raw dick and cum deposited in you (specifically deep in that ass). A lot of individuals try to shame cumdumps, for various reasons — but like mama Ru said, if those bitches aren’t paying your bills, pay them no mind! BUT, that doesn’t mean you can go about this cumdump lifestyle carefree. Yes, being uninhibited and free in your sexual desires is bold and liberating, however there are still things that you should take into consideration. Opinions of others, is most certainly not one of them. So here’s what you should perhaps keep in mind when embracing your urge to be a cumdump.

SAFETY

This perhaps, is the most important factor to keep in consideration! Being a cumdump doesn’t necessarily mean you’re reckless, but not being aware of who you’re meeting and your surroundings at all times is. Yes, this lifestyle can bring on spontaneity and lead to a lot of anonymous… no questions asked type of sex. But that doesn’t mean you let your guards down completely. At the very least, try to verify the other persons identity by validating their pictures. Don’t give out your address and or room number to just anyone. If you feel entirely comfortable with that person (be it a public encounter or off of one of those apps), then you can let them know where you’re staying at. And in this day and age of people trying to rob you with these encounters, do not have any valuables laying around. Lock your things up and keep them out of plain sight! Me personally, I like to discreetly keep pepper spray within arms length at all times, just in case.

STD’S

This one should be a no-brainer. It’s fine if you want to indulge in grown ass sexual activity. But you have to prioritize your health in these matters. Routine monthly testing should find its way on your calendar if you’re a cumdump. You can’t control other individuals and how they monitor their health, but this is for your sole benefit. Preventative medications should also be considered. Penicillin and doxycycline should be your best friends at this point.

STAY READY

If you stay ready, you won’t have to get ready! But we’re talking about bottoming for multiple raw dicks so, yeah there’s definitely going to be some prep involved. That doesn’t give you a free pass however to eat any and everything like it’s your last meal on death row. If you know you’re about to be a pig all weekend, maybe skip the Mexican food so that you can feel great stomach-wise. Bottoming when you’re bloated and all clogged up is one of the worst feelings. You don’t know how many dicks you’ll take or how long this cumdump session may go. So you want to enter it feeling light and with the most confidence as possible. Make yo’ ass a salad instead, so that when your salad is getting tossed you can enjoy it worry-free.

SELF CARE

Just because you’re being a slutty cumdump doesn’t mean you should disregard how you care for yourself — prior to, during and after! Make sure you’re lubed up! And that you have plenty of lube to last you throughout your cumdump sessions. You want to avoid any anal fissures or tearing. You also need to be hydrated! Water is good, but also try to have some drinks that have a bit of sugar and some electrolytes. Yes, you want that thang to get worn out, but personally — you don’t want to feel depleted. Finally, being insatiable is one thing. But you have to know when to call it quits. We’re not comic book cumdumps. We’re actual humans, and the human body has limits. Listen to your body and know when to call it quits. There are plenty of dicks and days ahead of you. Give yourself a moment to recover and then you can resume when the time is right.

PERSONAL DESIRE

I think this is really important. Personal desire ties in with your mental health. In the moment, being a cumdump can feel really exciting, like you’re living life on the edge. Sexual pleasure is one of the greatest feelings in this world. Imagine that amplified in a singular night. But afterwards, dark thoughts can get into your head and cloud your judgment. It’s not for everyone, but if you truly desire to take multiple raw dicks — be it from friends with benefits or strangers, just make sure it’s something that you personally will be okay with. It doesn’t make you less than anyone else. It doesn’t make you pathetic. It doesn’t make you undateable. It doesn’t make you nasty. You’re just a gay man with a very big sexual appetite. As long as this is something you desire, and you’re being smart and safe about it — you’re all good. Don’t ever get down on yourself about it. Besides, these bitches wish they could get as much dick as you!

December 27, 2022 — Andrew Christian
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