Is He The Guy of Your Dreams, or Are You Just Dicknotized?

Article by Ben Haynes

There’s nothing quite like the experience of exploring someone new. The passion is fierce and fiery; every time you get together, you’re floating. You have fun with him, and the sex is hotter than ever; everything is fantastic! At some point, however, there comes a moment where you determine if this new flame was lit to last or is burning out fast. Is he the guy you’ve been searching for all along? Are you dicknotized by passionate sex but lack a connection? Let’s explore how to tell!

Conversations

Pay close attention to the quality and complexity of your conversations with him. A good candidate for a partner is someone who you can talk to about anything, despite your opinions. Do you share similar values? Is he interested in getting to know the “real” you? Same question for you. If any of these don’t ring true, you might need to re-evaluate your intentions with this guy.

Quality Time

Do you actually do things with this guy, or do your “meetings” typically occur in the bedroom? An intense sexual relationship with a man is critical to a successful and strong partnership. But if that’s the only activity you two can agree upon, it might spell trouble.

Your Friends’ Opinions

Have you taken your new friend around the ones you’ve had forever? Integrating a new interest into the lives of those who know you best is one of the best mirrors you can use. Pay attention to how your interest interacts with your friends. More importantly, listen to what your friends tell you about your fling afterward, and always require their honesty!

Don’t Be Sad if It’s Just Sex!

We all want to find our version of “Mr. Right.” But we’re destined to find “Mr. Right Now” much quicker. Don’t let that get you down, though! Have fun with this new flame, even if it’s just a quick fling! Have fun, be safe, and above all else, love yourself unapologetically. You’ll find what you’re looking for in due course!