6 Reasons to Consider a Threesome

Article by Brittany Hancock

If you've been together for quite some time, it's likely you've lustfully looked at another individual. There's no shame in this and it does not mean you love your partner any less. Afterall, it's human nature. However, maybe it's time you consider bringing another into your bedroom experience. Perhaps the thought of another lover is exciting, but you’re unsure. Here are six reasons why a threesome may be just what you and your partner need.

Learning Experience

One thing about threesomes is the ability to improve your sexual knowledge. You’re likely to pick up some tips along the way that either please you or your partner. This will come in handy later on when you and your partner alone. If you enter into a threesome, pay attention. Notice what your new temporarily lover does that puts your partner in the mood. Also keep an eye out for things you enjoy yourself. Later, when the two of you are alone, you can implement these new techniques to improve your own sex life.

Communicate with Your Partner

Discussing a threesome will force you to have better communication with your partner. It’s essential to go over boundaries before proceeding through with the act. For this reason, you’ll need to sit down together and really go over what you both expect. This can be a very intimate conversation and will likely bring up some new topics you’ve yet to go over. Hopefully, this new sense of openness follows you later on and makes future conversations about hard topics easier to handle.

Jealousy Issues

If you’re prone to jealousy or your partner is quick to see that little green monster, then adding a third lover will force you to deal with it. The idea of seeing your guy with another may seem initially painful, but it’s important to remember who they love. The experience is meant to be fun and that’s it. There’s a fine line between what constitutes being in love and what is lust. Ultimately, after the experience, you will view things differently. You may become more confident about your relationship when your lover proceeds to want only you, even after being with someone else. This sense of stability is great for growing as a person as well as strengthening a relationship.

Build Trust

Another benefit of a threesome is the chance to build trust. You’re putting a lot of confidence into each other when you add a third lover. You’re basically saying, “I know I’m the one for you, but let’s try something different”. When you place this amount of trust in your partner, then they will be more likely to feel secure with you. One of the best foundations of a relationship is the ability to trust one another. Therefore, this exercise will also help to build your relationship into a better place.

More Pleasure

Who doesn’t like pleasure? This one may seem obvious, but a third wheel will lead to more pleasure. When you enter into a threesome you will not be able to keep up with the intense sensations that come at you from every angle. Your lover only has two hands, so adding another set will ensure you’re always being fulfilled. Likewise, your partner will be pleased to the utmost capability. It can be quite a turn on to see the person you love being so aroused they don’t know what to do. We all deserve to let loose from time to time.

New Adventure

Life is short. Often, we realize this too late. The fortunate few who do understand just how quickly life flies by know that it shouldn’t be taken for granted. There so many things that we have to explore and having a threesome may be one that you will enjoy. So, why not try out this new adventure? Give it a whirl. If it’s not your cup of tea, or your partner isn’t comfortable, then you move on from it. But when you’re looking back it will be something to remember and think “I did that”. Even if it turns out horribly, it would be a little inside joke to share with your partner.

Considering a Throuple

In our modern age new relationships are developing that break the barriers of traditional fashions. One of these new traditions is a “throuple”. This is the addition of a third partner into your relationship and it succeeds the need for just sex. If you are considering adding another individual into your love life, then a threesome is a good test run. Naturally, this may not be the end goal for all couples. If you’re just looking for some fun that’s great, too. But for those who do want something more serious you can use this experience to test your compatibility with another person.