When you're a top, there's a lot of pressure to perform. Oftentimes, the fate of fuck depends entirely on you (assuming your bottom is well-prepared and clean). Don't let anxiety get the better of you! If you feel self-conscious about your abilities as a top, don't! Just follow these six steps and the bottoms will begging for more!

1. Find and hit the prostate

First and foremost, your job as a top is sort of like a hit man. But instead of tracking down a target to assassinate, you're zoning in on the prostate and pounding the shit out of it. You probably have a good sense of where it is, but if not it's below the bladder and in front of the rectum. It's about the size of a walnut, and stimulating that little nut is essential for him to nut!

2. Let him ride

Take some of the pressure off yourself and let him hop on top! Not only will this help you last longer, but he can also gyrate and bend your cock exactly how he wants. If he can't cum when he's on top, well... then that's his fault!

3. Don't be a minuteman

The goal of a top should be to make him cum at least once before you do. A flaccid dick in the refractory period is just not enough for a prostate orgasm. Go slow, change positions if you need to, and practice edging masturbation so you last longer in the sack.

4. Find his trigger

Half of sex is psychological--just fucking his ass is not always going to be enough. Every bottom is created differently. Get to know him, his kinks, his fetishes and his weaknesses. He'll cum quicker and more explosively if you can activate his specific trigger.

5. Reach around

While many bottoms prefer to cum via prostate orgasms, it's only common human decency to reach around and jerk him off while you fuck him. I mean, what are bros for?

6. Don't put too much pressure on yourself

Ultimately, while it's mostly on you to deliver a good fucking to your bottom, it's also important to relax and not put too much pressure on yourself. Sex is supposed to be fun, and if you're super tense and awkward, that's not going to help the vibe. If something goes wrong or you cum too soon, well hey--that's what round two is for!
May 22, 2022 — Andrew Christian
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